Yesterday morning I woke to sunlight streaming through the windows and it continued like that for the rest of the day. Warm, bright, cheerful and exposing certain areas that needed a good dust or clean (not so cheerful!)! In contrast, this morning I looked out the window and could barely see 50 metres in any direction as fog had formed and was dense and obscuring. I took a walk and noticed (as earlier) how I was only able to see up to a certain distance ahead and wondered in

“How do I grieve what I’ve never had”, is a question I get asked quite a lot. I hear this a lot in my infertility practice from people who have sadly not been able to create a family, fall pregnant or suffered a pregnancy loss. I believe part of the answer to this can be found within the question itself (‘what I’ve never had’). The other part of the answer is very much linked to ‘expectation and desire’. If you have always dreamt, imagined, hoped, thought, believed or desired